Then a friend steps in with a gentle smile and a few simple words of encouragement and suddenly you’re not alone. In the midst of whatever made your heart feel knocked off-kilter, can I whisper what I believe are the 5 best things one can say to a friend?

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So, we threw her a “Job Party” (like the man in the Bible).

Each of us brought a few things to help her family start over.

We didn’t come close to fully meeting their financial needs.

But we helped build a foundation of restoration and gave this family the assurance God was working on their behalf. “Come over.” Welcoming a friend inside the sacred space of our home is such a needed gesture. And then we celebrate the parts of us that are still intact.

“Me too” acknowledges I’m no better than you, but together we are stronger.

It’s such a loving and disarming admission that we’re all in this together. “I’ll pray.” (”) Wouldn’t it be wonderful to tell a friend you will absolutely be faithful in praying for her?

I have someone who prays for me faithfully and even texts me Scriptures she’s praying. She doesn’t just pray about my situations: She prays me through them. “I’ll share.” () When we notice a need in a friend’s life, might we be willing to step in and be part of the solution?

I have a friend who lost every possession she owned due to a chemical spill in her home.

There’s just something about relationships that are less pixelated when we get eye-to-eye, voice-to-voice and talk. We reach across the table and across our differences to grab hold of the glorious bond of friendship. And I’ve found as we purposefully ease the loneliness ache in others, we will see it is beautifully eased in us.

TRUTH FOR TODAY: Hebrews , “And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” (NIV) REFLECT AND RESPOND: Think of a friend in need. Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 Give them permission to roll down the windows and belt out their favorite tunes as you enjoy a fun-filled journey together.

Of the five statements above, which one can you put into practice with her today?