Jackson mentioned possibly hanging out with a woman who was his perfect marriage match, but who would never be his future fiancée. Obviously, there are numerous factors that determine selecting your spouse.And sometimes you have to fish a few ponds before reeling in a winner.Nonetheless, I thought Jackson should put away his pole if he didn’t want to catch a family. Jackson: The hesitation for not wanting to marry a woman with children is the fear of the phrase,”You’re not my daddy!

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Over the weekend, my friend–let’s call him Jackson–sent me a text message to ask me what I was doing.

I had turned down a dinner date earlier in the afternoon and wasn’t doing much of anything.

Since I’m Jackson couldn’t understand why I didn’t go out when I didn’t have my daughter.

I explained that I was relaxing, enjoying my time watching a television show that didn’t star Dora or Doc Mc Stuffins. No matter how sexy, how smart or how fun, she would never receive a ring–at least not from Jackson. Heck, I held the same one when I was in my twenties, single with only one mouth to feed–my own! I told him he should not date a woman with kids if he would never marry her.

I wouldn’t marry a man who doesn’t love my daughter dearly. As far as ranking your loved ones, that doesn’t occur. She comes first, but that doesn’t mean my husband will get leftover love.

My heart is big, and there’s room for lots of people.

Just like a house, it has many doors and I have copies of the keys to hand out!

When you have children together, those things like that do not come out of their mouths.

Besides, I will never be number one in the mom’s life. Me: Whoever I marry will be my daughter’s stepfather, and she will be taught to respect him and listen to him as he would be a main caregiver.

Although I won’t allow another man to spank her, I will allow him to discipline her in other ways with my input.

We would teach the same to our own biological children.